Can Stress and Anxiety Upset My Stomach?
Bloating & DigestionArticleHow the gut and brain talk to each other, what irritable bowel syndrome is, why it isn't all in your head, what helps, and when a stomach that follows your stress needs a doctor.
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Ten minutes before the big call, your stomach does something you’d rather not discuss. It tightens, it gurgles, and you consider the bathroom, then the call, then the bathroom again.
What stress does to digestion
The AGA1 says the digestive system and brain are closely connected. The National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)2 says that prolonged anxiety can affect your health, including your digestive, immune, cardiovascular and reproductive systems. The NHS3 lists stomach problems among the physical symptoms of generalized anxiety disorder, next to difficulty sleeping, tiredness, tension, palpitations and dizziness.
For some people the conversation goes wrong in a way that has a name.
Irritable bowel syndrome
The National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK)4 describes irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) as a group of symptoms that occur together: repeated pain in your abdomen and changes in your bowel movements, without visible damage to the digestive tract. It’s a functional disorder, which NIDDK links to problems with how your brain and your gut work together. Those problems affect how sensitive the bowel is and how its muscles contract.
It’s common. NIDDK4 says about 12% of Americans have IBS. Women have double the risk compared with men, and people under 50 are more likely to develop it than older adults.
The symptoms include abdominal pain, diarrhea, constipation or a mix of both, bloating, a feeling that you haven’t finished, and mucus in the stool. NIDDK5 says women may notice more symptoms during menstruation.
Doctors don’t fully know what causes it. NIDDK5 lists stressful early-life experiences or trauma, depression and anxiety, bacterial infections or overgrowth, food intolerances and genetics among the contributing factors.
Two things from NIDDK5 deserve to be said clearly. IBS is chronic, often lasting years. It also doesn’t lead to other health problems or damage your digestive tract.
Several topics on this site overlap with it, including bloating through the day, gas and constipation.
It isn’t all in your head
A stomach that reacts to stress is easy to dismiss, and that’s a mistake. NIDDK4 calls IBS a functional gastrointestinal disorder, meaning the symptoms come from how the gut works, not from visible damage. The discomfort is the same either way.
The AGA1 adds a useful warning in the other direction. Bloating isn’t always caused by too much gas, it says. The gut may be oversensitive, may move food slowly, or may lack an enzyme it needs.
What helps
NIDDK’s6 treatment page starts with lifestyle: more physical activity, reducing stressful situations as much as possible, and getting enough sleep. Diet changes may help, such as eating more fiber, avoiding gluten, or following a low FODMAP diet.
It also lists three talk-based approaches. Cognitive behavioral therapy helps you change thought and behavior patterns to improve IBS symptoms. Gut-directed hypnotherapy uses a relaxed, focused state to help the symptoms. Relaxation training teaches you to relax your muscles or reduce stress.
Medicines depend on which type of IBS you have, whether it’s mostly diarrhea, constipation or pain, and your clinician chooses among them. NIDDK6 says research on probiotics is still going.
The NIMH’s2 list of ways to manage stress is plain: journaling or mindfulness apps, regular exercise, healthy eating, a steady sleep routine, less caffeine, challenging negative thoughts, and support from friends and family.
Try this: pair a stomach note with a stress note
When your stomach acts up, write the date, the symptom, and what was going on: the meeting, the argument, the poor night’s sleep, the day of your cycle.
After a while, look for what repeats.
Bring the page to your doctor. A written pattern is easier to discuss than a memory.
When to get checked
The NIMH2 says stress deserves professional attention when it interferes with your everyday life, makes you avoid doing things, or seems to be always present. If symptoms won’t go away, it may be time to talk to a professional. The NHS3 says to see a GP if you think you may have generalized anxiety disorder, or if treatment isn’t helping.
Don’t assume stress is the whole story if you have warning signs. The AGA1 lists symptoms that don’t go away, weight loss without trying, blood in your stool, trouble swallowing, vomiting, severe belly pain, and new symptoms after age 50 as reasons to talk to a provider.
Book an appointment if any of these fit:
- Stomach symptoms keep coming back, or have gone on for months
- They follow your stress, and you’ve started avoiding things
- You have blood in your stool or have lost weight without trying
- You’re over 50 and the symptoms are new
- Anxiety feels constant or hard to control
If you’re in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 in the US. The NIMH2 lists it for immediate support.
Your stomach wasn’t being dramatic before that call. It was listening.
If you are in crisis or thinking about harming yourself, call or text 988 in the US, or your local emergency number.
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Sources
The research behind this article, in the order it’s cited. How we source our articles.
- American Gastroenterological Association (AGA)Belching, bloating, and abdominal distention: What you need to know (opens in a new tab)abcd
- National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH)Stress (opens in a new tab)abcd
- NHSGeneralised anxiety disorder: Symptoms (opens in a new tab)ab
- National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases (NIDDK)Definition & Facts of Irritable Bowel Syndrome (opens in a new tab)abc
- NIDDKSymptoms & Causes of Irritable Bowel Syndrome (opens in a new tab)abc
- NIDDKTreatment for Irritable Bowel Syndrome (opens in a new tab)ab
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