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Is Urinary Leakage After Childbirth Normal?

Leaking pee after having a baby is common. What the numbers show, how long it tends to last, where normal ends, and the signs that mean get checked.

In this article
  1. What’s expected in the first six weeks
  2. Where normal starts to run out
  3. Does how you gave birth change the odds?
  4. What helps, and how good is the evidence?
  5. Signs that need attention sooner
  6. Bringing it up without the awkward pause

Common? Yes. Normal in the sense of “leave it alone and it’ll sort itself out”? That part comes with an expiration date.

So leaking after a baby is common, and in the early weeks it’s expected. The rest of the answer is about the calendar.

What’s expected in the first six weeks

Your pelvic floor is the sling of muscle that holds up your bladder and helps keep the exit shut. It had a hard year. Pregnancy pressed down on it for months, and the Office on Women’s Health2 notes that problems during labor and childbirth, especially vaginal birth, can weaken the pelvic floor muscles and damage the nerves that control the bladder.

Temporary is the word to hold onto.

Most bladder control problems from labor and delivery go away once the muscles have had some time to heal, according to the Office on Women’s Health2. So a few drops when you sneeze, cough, or haul the car seat out of the back seat in those first weeks sits squarely in expected territory. Wear a pad, ask your clinician when gentle pelvic floor squeezes are okay for you, and let your body do some healing. How birth changes the pelvic floor in the first place gets its own article.

Where normal starts to run out

Six weeks is where the Office on Women’s Health2 draws the line. If you’re still having bladder problems six weeks after childbirth, it says to talk to your doctor, nurse, or midwife. Got a postpartum checkup around then? That’s the place to say it. In the UK it’s a routine check at 6 to 8 weeks, and the NHS3 lists trouble holding in your pee among the things to tell your doctor there.

Think of it as a checkpoint. It isn’t a deadline for being fully healed, and plenty of women keep improving well past it.

Here’s why we push on it anyway. The ProLong study, published in BJOG, followed 3,763 women from three months after a birth to 12 years after it. Of the women who were leaking at three months, 76.4% reported leakage at 12 years. Across the whole group, 37.9% had leakage that persisted, meaning they reported it at 12 years and at least one earlier check-in.

Three months. Twelve years.

Many of these women had more babies in between, so later births played a part too. But the leak that showed up at three months seldom went away on its own.

A related trial drew on the same three maternity centers. It enrolled 747 women who were leaking three months after birth and landed in the same place. About four out of five had the problem 12 years later, the researchers reported in BJOG in 2014.

Our read on those numbers: leaking at six weeks is common and worth mentioning. Leaking at three months is common too, but by then the pattern is settling in, and waiting it out has stopped being a plan.

Does how you gave birth change the odds?

Some. Less than you’d hope.

In ProLong, women who delivered only by cesarean had well under half the odds of long-term leakage compared with women who had only vaginal births. Women who’d had both a cesarean and a vaginal birth got no reduction at all. And a cesarean doesn’t skip pregnancy, which loads the bladder for months on its own. As many as 4 in 10 women get urinary incontinence during pregnancy, by the Office on Women’s Health’s2 count.

Other things tied to leakage that lasted in that study were being older at your first birth, having more births, and carrying extra weight. Leaking before pregnancy mattered too. Of 54 first-time mothers who already leaked before they were ever pregnant, 46 had it at 12 years.

Most postpartum leaks are the stress kind, set off by a cough, a laugh, a jump. A 2021 meta-analysis of 24 studies in the International Urogynecology Journal4 found that, on average, 31% of women reported leaking when they were surveyed anywhere from six weeks to one year after birth. Stress incontinence made up 54% of cases. Urge incontinence, the sudden can’t-wait feeling, made up 26%, and a mix of both 16%.

What helps, and how good is the evidence?

Pelvic floor exercises are the standard first step after birth, and every health source we read recommends them. The NHS5 describes two kinds. For long squeezes, tighten around your vagina and urethra as if you’re stopping the flow of pee, and hold for up to 10 seconds. Short ones are quick squeezes, repeated until the muscles tire. Build up to 10 of each, at least 3 times a day. Check with your own clinician before you start, especially after a tear, stitches, or a cesarean.

We expected the research on exercises to be solid. Once leaking has hung on after birth, it’s thinner than the advice makes it sound.

In the 2020 Cochrane1 review, for women whose leaks persisted after birth, there was no evidence that pelvic floor training changed leakage at six to 12 months, and the reviewers rated that evidence low quality. That reads as “the studies so far are few and shaky,” not as “exercises don’t work.” The same reviewers point out that pelvic floor training has a better track record in mid-life women. And the Office on Women’s Health2 says improvement can take 4 to 6 weeks of steady practice to show.

The 2014 trial6 adds a wrinkle. Women who got nurse-led pelvic floor and bladder training after birth were doing better than the comparison group at one year, with 60% leaking versus 69%. By 12 years the difference had disappeared. So had much of the habit. In the trial group, the share doing pelvic floor exercises fell from 83% to 52%, close to the comparison group’s 49%.

Look, a few weeks of half-remembered squeezes in the shower is a thin plan for a leak that hasn’t let up by three months. A pelvic floor physical therapist can check whether you’re squeezing the right muscles at all. Then they build a program around what they find. If exercises don’t get you far enough, ask a clinician about other options. Depending on the type of leak, those can include a vaginal support device called a pessary, medicines, or procedures. Leaks that have lasted months or years can be treated, and it’s never too late to bring them up.

One clearer finding, if another baby is on your horizon. The Cochrane1 review found that women who weren’t leaking and did pelvic floor training during pregnancy probably have a lower risk of leaking in late pregnancy.

Signs that need attention sooner

Some leaks after birth aren’t the sneeze kind. These deserve a call to your clinician instead of a wait:

  • Urine seeps from your vagina all the time, day and night, with no link to coughing or moving
  • You can’t pee, you don’t feel the urge for hours, or urine dribbles out while your bladder feels full
  • Peeing hurts, burns, or is hard to get started
  • You have a fever of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher, or chills
  • You see fresh red blood in your urine
  • You notice a heavy feeling between your vagina and anus that isn’t easing
  • You’re still leaking urine at six weeks, or you’re leaking poo or can’t hold in gas

The first one matters because an abnormal opening between the bladder and the vagina, called a vesico-vaginal fistula, can form after a difficult delivery. Urine then leaks from the vagina in a way you can’t control, according to a patient leaflet from Manchester University NHS Foundation Trust7. It can be tested for, and it’s nothing to put up with.

A full bladder that dribbles can mean urinary retention, when the bladder doesn’t empty properly. Cambridge University Hospitals NHS Foundation Trust8 notes that trouble emptying happens to a lot of women in the first day or two after birth, while trouble lasting longer than three days affects about 1 in 500 women. Overflow leaking is on its list of signs.

If you can’t pee at all, or your bladder feels painfully full and little or nothing comes out, call the hospital where you gave birth right away or go to urgent care or the ER. The same goes for a fever of 100.4°F (38°C) or higher in the weeks after birth, especially with chills, a racing heart, trouble breathing, or overwhelming tiredness. Get medical care right away, and if it feels severe, call 911 or your local emergency number.

Bringing it up without the awkward pause

Postpartum appointments get crowded fast. Feeding, sleep, stitches, the baby’s weight. Leaking slides to the bottom of the list, and then the visit is over.

So say it first. “I’m still leaking when I sneeze” is one sentence, and it gets the appointment pointed in a useful direction.

You don’t have to wait for a scheduled visit, either. You can call your OB-GYN, midwife, or primary care clinician about a physical problem any time after birth. If the leaking, or anything else since the birth, is wearing on your mood, say that at the appointment too. Your clinician can help, and so can a therapist. If the embarrassment is the hard part, we have a separate piece on talking about leaks.

That sneeze at three weeks? Expected. The same sneeze at three months is your cue to book the appointment.

If you've recently given birth, check with your own clinician or midwife before starting pelvic floor exercises or any new exercise routine, especially after a tear, stitches, or a cesarean.

This article is for general educational purposes only and is not medical advice. It isn't a substitute for diagnosis or treatment from a qualified healthcare professional who knows your health history. Please don't ignore professional advice or delay getting care because of something you read here. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or your local emergency number right away. Girl Playbook does not endorse any specific product, test, or provider.

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Sources

The research behind this article, in the order it’s cited. How we source our articles.

  1. Cochrane, 2020Pelvic floor muscle training for preventing and treating urinary and faecal incontinence in antenatal and postnatal women (opens in a new tab)abc
  2. Office on Women's Health, U.S. Department of Health and Human ServicesUrinary incontinence (opens in a new tab)abcde
  3. NHSYour 6-week postnatal check (opens in a new tab)↩
  4. International Urogynecology Journal (via PubMed Central), 2021Prevalence, incidence and bothersomeness of urinary incontinence between 6 weeks and 1 year post-partum: a systematic review and meta-analysis (opens in a new tab)↩
  5. NHSYour post-pregnancy body (opens in a new tab)↩
  6. Glazener C, et al., BJOG, 2014Twelve-year follow-up of conservative management of postnatal urinary and faecal incontinence and prolapse outcomes: randomised controlled trial (opens in a new tab)↩
  7. Manchester University NHS Foundation TrustVesico-vaginal fistula (VVF) (opens in a new tab)↩
  8. Cambridge University Hospitals NHS Foundation TrustUrinary retention following childbirth (opens in a new tab)↩
  9. MacArthur C, et al., BJOG (accepted manuscript via University of Aberdeen)Urinary incontinence persisting after childbirth: extent, delivery history, and effects in a 12-year longitudinal cohort study (opens in a new tab)
  10. Centers for Disease Control and PreventionUrgent Maternal Warning Signs and Symptoms (opens in a new tab)

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