Sex With an Indwelling Catheter: Ask for Advice That Fits Your Setup
Bladder & Pelvic FloorArticleBring intimacy questions to your own nurse or doctor before having sex.
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If asking about sex feels awkward, you can begin with the question written down.
Ask before having sex
Sex may still be possible with an indwelling catheter, but it can be more difficult. NHS1 guidance says to get advice from a doctor or nurse beforehand.1
Opening phrase: “I have an indwelling catheter and want to discuss sex. Please advise me for my current setup.”1
Clarifying question: “What advice applies to me, and who should I contact if I have difficulty?”1
The clinician can discuss whether a different catheter type might help. This needs an individual conversation.1
Take your question with you
You can hand over the note if saying the opening sentence feels difficult. Leave room underneath for the answer, and ask for unfamiliar wording to be explained.
Laugh, Sneeze, Jump includes an appointment prep sheet. Use it to organize the questions you want answered. Explore the book.
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