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Waking Up at Night to Pee: Causes to Check Before You Buy a Fix

Getting up two or more times a night to urinate is common after 50, but it isn't always a bladder problem. Surveys link it to diabetes and high blood pressure, and a prescription option has sodium risks. Here is what to track and ask.

Woman in her sixties sitting on the edge of her bed in soft early-morning light, writing in a small notebook on the nightstand beside a glass of water.

How common is it?

Very. In a U.S. survey of nearly 9,900 adults, about one in three got up at least twice a night to urinate.1 Doctors call this nocturia.

Is it always a bladder problem?

  • Diabetes: a review of 29 studies found people with diabetes were more likely to have nocturia.2
  • High blood pressure: in a survey of 29,505 adults, nocturia was linked with hypertension, and the link grew stronger as nighttime trips increased.3
  • Heart disease and death: in the 9,900-person survey, nocturia was linked with higher death rates, including from heart disease, and the risk rose with more trips a night.1

These surveys show associations, not cause.13 But they’re a good reason to treat frequent night trips as something to mention, not just put up with.

What should I track?

A 3-day bladder diary helps a clinician sort out the cause. Write down:

  1. What and when you drink, especially in the evening.
  2. Each time you urinate, day and night, and roughly how much.
  3. Leaks or urgency.
  4. When you go to bed and wake up.

Our guide to the bladder diary explains the details.

Is there a pill for it?

Desmopressin reduces urine production. Generic desmopressin tablets are approved for a rare hormone condition and for bedwetting, not specifically for adult nocturia.4 In a trial of 190 women with nocturia from making too much urine at night, a low dose let them sleep about 2 hours longer before the first trip, but it didn’t significantly cut the number of nighttime trips compared with placebo.5

The label warns that desmopressin can cause low blood sodium, which can be fatal. It calls for limiting fluids, extra caution in older adults, and watching for headache, nausea, confusion and muscle cramps. It isn’t used in people with low sodium or moderate to severe kidney problems.4

Who should I see first?

Start with your primary care clinician, who can check blood sugar, blood pressure, kidney function, medicines and sleep. A urologist or urogynecologist can help if the bladder is the main cause. Overactive bladder treatments are covered in our guides to beta-3 agonists and the oxybutynin patch. If you snore or stop breathing in your sleep, ask about sleep apnea testing.

Try: “I’m getting up three times a night to pee. Here’s my bladder diary. Could this be my blood sugar, blood pressure, a medicine or my bladder?”

Laugh, Sneeze, Jump includes an appointment prep sheet. Use it with your bladder diary to show your clinician your nighttime pattern.

This article is for general educational purposes only and is not medical advice. It isn't a substitute for diagnosis or treatment from a qualified healthcare professional who knows your health history. Please don't ignore professional advice or delay getting care because of something you read here. Excessive thirst, burning with urination, blood in the urine, leg swelling, shortness of breath when lying down, or loud snoring with breathing pauses should be checked promptly. If you take desmopressin and develop headache, nausea, confusion or muscle cramps, seek care right away. If you think you may be having a medical emergency, call 911 or your local emergency number right away. This article discusses medical conditions, a prescription medicine and published research. Girl Playbook does not endorse any specific product, test, or provider.

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Sources

The research behind this article, in the order it’s cited. How we source our articles.

  1. International Neurourology Journal (full text via PubMed Central), 2022The Relationship Between Nocturia and Mortality: Data From the National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey (opens in a new tab)abc
  2. Frontiers in Public Health (full text via PubMed Central), 2022The association between diabetes and nocturia: A systematic review and meta-analysis (opens in a new tab)↩
  3. Frontiers in Cardiovascular Medicine (full text via PubMed Central), 2023Relationship between nocturia and hypertension: findings from the NHANES 2005-2016 (opens in a new tab)ab
  4. DailyMed, National Library of MedicineDesmopressin acetate tablets: prescribing information (opens in a new tab)ab
  5. Lower Urinary Tract Symptoms (full text via PubMed Central), 2020Efficacy and safety of 25 and 50 μg desmopressin orally disintegrating tablets in Japanese patients with nocturia due to nocturnal polyuria (opens in a new tab)↩

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